Behabella 10th's Birthday

Alhamdulilah, anak2 kembar saya melangkah setahun lagi ke alam dewasa. 

Di tahun ke sepuluh saya perhatikan slowly they are moving from sifat kanak-kanak to awal remaja. Baik dari segi fizikal dan juga tingkah-laku. Dah mula pandai dengar the latest hit songs, memilih outfits sendiri, mula minat artis2 dan menonton drama dewasa.

I am not so ready for this. I'm not so ready to be mom to teenagers. So far mereka masih sepenuhnya dibawah kawalan kami, never been out by themselves. Pergi balik sekolah masih kami urus sepenuhnya. We know their friends at school. They still tell us everything happen to them or around them. They don't have any internet media social accounts yet and I hope I can maintain this for more coming years.They have asked for FB account, but I said no since they are very young to me but I gave reasons why they can't. I know I can't forever keeping them from having their own FB, Twitter and whatnots but I would want to delay it as long as I can. Menyekat sangat pon tak boleh, menurut sangat pon tak boleh. It's really scary to see what's happening to our society now, mcm2 gejala sosial dan mcm2 permasalahan hidup. So I'm trying to be as cautious as possible. 

Parenting is not an easy job and method of parenting pon tak sama utk setiap ibu-bapa. I try my best to provide what I should to my kids and learn from time to time how to be best parent. So now as the twins is slowly transforming to another stage of life, I have to transform myself to understand them better. 

Back to the birthday girls, kami sambut dirumah secara simple saja. Tahun lepas ada jugak saya hantarkan goodies to school for their classmates sbb mampu sediakan goodies yang sihat, i.e no jajan2 yg x berkhasiat. Tahun ni tak sempat plus it's exam week for them so I told them that it's gonna be just celebration at home with umi abah and Insyirah. 

So I bought Baskin Robbin's icecream cake dan KFC semalam.

Cantik dan sedap! Harga pon tau2 je la...hehehe. Kek macam ni boleh beli setahun sekali je la. Tu pon guna Treat Points Maybank. Tak mampu nak beli selalu. 

They happy with the cake. But I always remind them jangan berharap kek mahal2 macam ni every birthday. Kalau ada, ada. Kalau takde, jangan nak demand2 ye!

So utk puteri2 ummi ni, ummi sangat2 mendoakan semoga kalian berdua akan membesar menjadi anak2 yang cemerlang dunia akhirat. Ummi berharap ummi dan Abah mampu mendidik kalian dengan ilmu utk bekalan hidup dunia akhirat. Tak guna hanya pandai dan berjaya dalam akademik,  tapi tak bersedia dengan kehidupan akhirat. Ramai yang puji anak kembar Ummi ni cantik....Alhamdulilah atas pujian itu tapi Ummi lebih takut kalau muka saja cantik tapi akhlak tak cantik. Takut kalau kecantikan digunakan atas jalan yang salah, takut kalau riak dan leka dengan pujian diberikan sampai lari jauh dari tujuan hidup sebenar. Ramai anak2 gadis diluar sana yang cantik2 dan jelita tapi sayang berpakaian seksi dan bergaul bebas. 

Moga anak2 perempuan ummi tak macam tu ye....