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Monday, August 9, 2010

Suka hati la labu....

*This is an entry of self-pondering....

Someone told me there's another someone said she doesn't like me...

Reason being?

This someone feels I am a snob because there was one time she she wanted to chat with me at YM and I dismissed her saying that I needed to go off cause I had chores to do.

Hmmm....bila dgr camtu, sy x tau how to react....sy cuma senyum kelat aje la.

I know I shouldn't be bothered....if one decides not to like me atas alasan remeh temeh gitu, do I need to feel guilty?

Maybe sesetengah org fikir, jadi surirumah ni mesti ada byk ample time, and in my situation, cuma ada 2 org anak preschool age and no babies, so suppose to always available utk chatting or do any leisure activities gitu?

Well...I do not know surirumah lain cemana, but for me ever since I venture into full-time housewife career, life always been busy. I know I can choose to do whatever I want, since I am my own boss but takkan nak jadi the type of housewife yg dok bermalas2an sambil anak2 berterabur dan rumah mcm tongkang pecah. Sometimes sy malas jugak, rumah bersepah jugak but takkan nak adapt that kind of attitude all the time kan? Sy nak la jadi surirumah yg berwawasan ^_^.

I do chat from time to time, tapi masa chatting adalah limited...tanya la my online friends how often they see me online and even if I am online and chat with some people, I always apologize for not being able to chat for long because that time la anak nak berak la, anak nak makan la, nak pegi masak la....in fact I chatted more masa keje dulu compare dgn skrg. And the one yg always chat with me pon are working people. Selalu kalau sy chat with housewife friends pon, either me kata nak kena offline of these friends akan kata they need to go offline.

Tapi for me, itu biasa la...xde la sy nak kata apa2 pon!

All I can conclude for myself pondering is - human beings characters are complex and sy hanya la manusia biasa yg x mampu utk menggembirakan hati semua org....

So, you don't like me?

Have it your way....







11 comments:

areT said...

hehehe..ko maafkan je la org itu neny...

durra abd razak @ kocikin... said...

Biar leh neny...bukan senang nak puaskan ati semua org...aku suka jer chat ngan ko :D ntah bila kita nak sambung kisah2 remaja kita yg tergendala tu ;) aku pun dh ada si kecik tu...baru 5 minit mengadap laptop..siren berbunyi...

durra abd razak @ kocikin... said...

Biar leh neny...bukan senang nak puaskan ati semua org...aku suka jer chat ngan ko :D ntah bila kita nak sambung kisah2 remaja kita yg tergendala tu ;) aku pun dh ada si kecik tu...baru 5 minit mengadap laptop..siren berbunyi...

Neny said...

Are-T: aku xde la nak marah kat org tu...tp apa2 pon aku maafkan aje la org tu...dah nak posa ni kan...all the negativity adalah x bagus!

durra: tu la..i shouldn´t be bothered...just pondering myself aje...so bezakan life bila dah ada anak ni?

nana said...

kalau aku lah, GTH je lah. marah pun tak guna sbb dia cakap belakang kita. so, tak yah layan. buat apa lah kawan ngan org macam tuh. haha.

aku slalu je dismiss org nk chat ngan aku esp time aku online sebenonye ada keje lain aku nk buat time meng'online'kan diri tuh.. hehehe..

ayin1911 said...

Hikhikhik..
(hanya mampu tersenyum kambing..)
abaikan... :)

Anonymous said...

Kalau aku neny, dah ramai kot org tak suka coz I'm bad at replying, wishing birthdays or chatting. Ok gak dia x suka ko, it means u were once matter in her life smp sentap sbb xleh chat. Hehehe.

Other than that, lain bebeno muka Ery! Dulu kekecik lain.
~mazrah

Neny said...

nana: sifat amarah mmg x bagus...nanti buat kita jadi stress ^_^.

Ayin: mari kita senyum beramai2 :))

Mazrah: Trust me, ur PR skills is amazing regardless u are saying u are not good in correspondences.

Ery dah gemuk + tuo......hahahaha

. said...

so true.. jadit housewife n mom mmg tader masa.. teringat pesan my mom je jgn la selekeh ngat nanti husband pandang pompuan lain.. i guess sbb apa my mom ckp buatkan gigih nak bercantik2 lg.. kalau x everyday konfem hubby blk tgk wifey selekeh + bau susu masam

pasal org tu, biar la dia.. dia x tau kita x menang tgn kat umah ni.. n knp dia sensitive sgt, at least u ckp u have chores to do, bukan hilang je or terus idle.. ok, tu i yg buat..tader closure terus ilang.. so mesti lg ramai x ske i...ahahaahh

Raihanna said...

isk2..
siapa la org yang x suka kat akak tu ek..
kadang2 manusia banyak yang suka menghukum org lain tanpa sebab munasabah..
sabar bebanyak yer kak...
sebenarnya orang yang benci org lain nie dia x perasan ada lebih ramai org yang tak suka kan dia..

Pah said...

100% agree...jadi housewife memang lagi penat dari keje pejabat...lepas pantang 2 weeks jadi housewife before start keje...wow, mane de mase nak online beb...petah lagi chatting...kagumla neny bleh jadik gak housewife for so long...pah nih 2 weeks dah surrender...kihkih...hampess...tapi terlepas la tgk anak2 membesar depan mata...that's the tough part...