Her name was so beautiful - SYAFIA HUMAIRAH
Unfortunately, her life was not as beautiful as her name. At 3 years old, she died because someone so heartless had murdered her so brutally. And perhaps long before her death, she had suffered more than we can imagine, living with some hot-tempered guy who is not even related to her, except that he was her mother´s boyfriend.
It is such a disturbing news to me. For those who doesn´t know what I´m writing about, please read it HERE. Just last year, there was a kid - a girl about Syafia´s age if I´m not mistaken also being abused to death by her mother´s Nigerian boyfriend.
And this time it happened again.
The mother said don´t blame her for the daughter´s death. Don´t judge her for all the wrong things happened in her life - the convicted husband, the bullying boyfriend, the child out of wedlock....
Then blame whom?
The husband for making crime and ended up lock in the jail?
Her family for not taking care of her and her kids when the husband is locked in the jail that she had to turn to some guy looking for love and ´protection´?
The society for not giving moral support and financial aid for some unlucky wife/mother?
The boyfriend?
I don´t know...i know we shouldn´t judge people...but I can´t help myself wondering....how could this happen?
How could she not know or notice that the boyfriend is a threat to her kids? Don´t just tell that the boyfriend was nice all along then on that particular day he just snapped and beat a child to death? Or was she so ´blind´that she couldn´t see it?
There´s something not right here....
That is one thing...
What about living together without being married? I mean, didn´t her family know what was going on or they just don´t bother to check out?
*sigh*
Syafia´s death is the end of her suffering. But to me her death shows the instability of our Malay-Muslim society today.
How many more news like this we would hear?
Orang kata `Jangan jaga tepi kain orang´.....tapi mungkin juga kalau kita jaga tepi kain org (dgn niat baik ok!), sekurang2nya kita boleh menyelamatkan keadaan sebelum terlambat?
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i have the same issue bout the mother as well, afterall she is the one who brought abang mat to their life, so it is just flimsy if she said dont blame her, mana boleh taknak accountable langsung. sahsah dia the first gurdian to shafia after the convicted father. u judged people for yer kiddos' sake.. takkan asal dapat boipren yg lust you but not caring esp to yer own kiddos.. it just beyond my comprehensionlah.. me being mother myself..
salam kak..i'm the one of your silent readers out here ;)
isu yang akak timbulkan ni banyak persoalannya. as a mother, yang ada naluri, yg sepatutnya peka dgn perkembangan anak2 should know whether her children are being abused or not. (though i'm not yet a mother) but my mom sendiri tahu anak2 dia ada masalah and my mom just know when and where she has to protect her children.
dalam kes ni, mungkin ibu dia terlalu muda..perasaan keibuan tu tak develop sangat,perhaps? atau mungkin dia sendiri terlalu tertekan dgn hidup yang banyak sgt dugaan, sampaikan ambil tak kisah pada anak..apa pun, sgt simpati dgn penderitaan shafiyah..mustahil ibu dia tak tahu anak dia pernah didera. sbb post mortem kan mengambil masa yg lama sbb forensics sendiri nampak banyak kesan2 penderaan pd shafiyah? wallahua'lam..
saje je interframe kat sini kak..hihi terpanggil sbb sy rasa isu ni isu masyarakat dan keluarga, perlu kita ambil tahu kan..
bak kata King Julian dln Penguins of Madagascar 'that makes you responsible for my irresponsibility..'.. huhuhuhu, people that doesn't have 'iman' in her heart never see reason and love. enuff said.
Salam Neny,
Kami laki bini pun furious bila dpt tau cerita..we know, si mak budak tu has been through a lot, she's probably done lots of mistakes in her life (but then again, sapa tak buat salah kan?), but mana dia bleh kata don't blame her..anak dia, her responsibility to allow people to her child..no one can change the past, but you can change the future..
she is lost in her own world, trapped in her own naiveness, one bad man after the other...one child after another, kesian..I mean if this go on kan, it is possible that her next generation will end up just like her..(membesar dengan bf mak, no financial stability, no real education).
about the suspect pulak, he's probably sick and insanely temperamental, most probably ada drugs involved, financial problems..but just plain sick,really..
tapi kami harap that man doesnt plead momentarily insane..kalau betul la dia yang buat, harap dia dapat hukuman paling berat..
so sorry sbb rambling tak tentu pasal, hehe..kami sangat marah pasal issue ni..
salam kak..
hish..nama lak safiyah.. samer ngan cik piyah namanye.. sangat kesian amat2 bile bace berite tu... nauzbillahminzhalikk!!!
kenakan hukuman yg paling berat pd pembunuh itu & sekutu2nya..!! mak dier pun mcm pelik jek..x kan x sedar budak tu pernah ada kesan kena pukul etc.. ke sibuk sgt carik duit sampai anak2 pun da xde masa nk tgk.. leh serah kt boypren dier.. ??? laki pulak tu... hishh.. mcm2 leh jadik..
tp sgt sedey bila bygkan kesakitan yg humaira hadapi tuh...!
Kak Dalia: Tu la, being a mother bila baca citer2 mcm ni sedih sgt. This is not about blaming her, but when she gave statements as if she did not contribute towards what happened, i'm so disgusted!
DD: Tu la, pokok pangkalnya pegangan agama kan?
Umie: Hai...i dont think being young mother shud be issue here, ramai je org yg ada anak usia muda tp faktor kematangan la kot yg penting. I'm trying not to judge her because we dont know the whole story. Semua dtg dr media, and u know la how media suka spiced things up! Just, mcm bila baca statement2 mak dia, i feel marah gila. Org yg bunuh tu mmg satu hal la...mak dia pon berckp mcm org x matang!
Mami & iu: Sapa x marah kan baca citer mcm ni? Tendang budak mcm bola? Mak budak pon simply je tinggal2kan anak dia, x fikir consequences. Sedangkan byk je kes deraan seksual n fizikal budak2 kecil skrg ni.
Kesian anak2 kecil yg ada mak bapak camni....
kak neny,
memule bace artikel tu mcm2 soklan yg keluar kat kepale tau. apsal org xtlg syafiah time dia kene belasah? ade ckp xnk jage tepi kain org, ade ckp mungkin bapak dia nk ajar ank dia, ade ckp takot sbb jantan tu panas baran.hello??? ko dok kat padang pasir ke sampai xde batu, kayu, bola ke hape ko bleh baling kat jantan tu.yg mak dia plak ckp jantan tu penyayang la, baik ngn anak dia la.tu statement penipu.nak tutup salah sendiri yg sbenarnye besubahat.eeee geram sgt.harap2 jantan tu kene belasah la ngn banduan lain lam lokap.
sorry kak neny, beremosi sekejap. :P [lepas geram.nak tampar2 muke 2 ekor tu xdpt huhu]
Sapa la yg x emo pasal berita ni? Dah la nama nak lebih kurang ngan kak ecah ye tak?
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