Important reminders for marriages
1. Put problems aside
2. Make spouse a priority. Spouse must be number 1. They must feel like they are number #1.
3. Have a partnership mentality - When we make decisions we must consider how it will effect your spouse. It must be "us" and "we "not just "me".
4. Seek 1st to understand than to be understood. "I really want to understand where you're coming from" Mature, loving and compassionate mentality.
2. Make spouse a priority. Spouse must be number 1. They must feel like they are number #1.
3. Have a partnership mentality - When we make decisions we must consider how it will effect your spouse. It must be "us" and "we "not just "me".
4. Seek 1st to understand than to be understood. "I really want to understand where you're coming from" Mature, loving and compassionate mentality.
Avoid
1. Adding fuel to the fire
2. Don't compare
3.Time alone wont heal and solve marriage crisis. Emotional issues need to be addressed.
1. Adding fuel to the fire
2. Don't compare
3.Time alone wont heal and solve marriage crisis. Emotional issues need to be addressed.
We must:-
1.Work on our selves (Self Development)
2.Have a beautiful friendship with our spouse. A great marriage equals to great friendship
3. Spirituality - It's about our relationship with the Creator
4. Conflict resolution must be addressed, learn and be developed in a marriage
5. Sexuality is an important area in happy marriages
1.Work on our selves (Self Development)
2.Have a beautiful friendship with our spouse. A great marriage equals to great friendship
3. Spirituality - It's about our relationship with the Creator
4. Conflict resolution must be addressed, learn and be developed in a marriage
5. Sexuality is an important area in happy marriages
When you love and give with a higher purpose it will have a more profound impact.
Adapted from Haleh Banani's marriage webinar
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